Preparing Your Family for Change When Divorce Is on the Horizon
- Kimberly Surber

- 4 days ago
- 3 min read

The start of a new year often brings reflection, goal setting, and a renewed focus on the future. For some families, it also brings difficult questions about marriage, finances, and what comes next. If you are considering divorce, the new year can feel overwhelming, but it can also be an opportunity to prepare thoughtfully and protect your family’s long-term well-being.
Divorce is not just a legal event. It is a financial and emotional transition that affects every part of life. Taking the time to prepare early can help reduce stress, avoid costly missteps, and create a clearer path forward.
Understanding Your Financial Picture
One of the most important first steps in preparing for divorce is gaining a clear understanding of your finances. Many people are unaware of the full scope of their household income, expenses, assets, and debts. Gathering documents such as bank statements, retirement accounts, tax returns, insurance policies, and mortgage information allows you to see the full picture and make informed decisions.
Having this clarity early can help prevent surprises and give you greater confidence as you consider your next steps.
Preparing Your Family for Change
Divorce affects more than just finances. It also impacts routines, relationships, and emotional stability, especially for children. Thinking ahead about housing, school schedules, and day-to-day expenses can help create consistency during a time of change.
Open, age-appropriate communication and maintaining familiar routines can go a long way in helping children feel secure. Planning ahead allows you to focus on stability rather than reacting to circumstances as they arise.
Planning for Your Long-Term Financial Future
Divorce can significantly alter long-term financial goals such as retirement planning, home ownership, and college savings. Understanding how different settlement options may affect your future is critical.
Working with a divorce-focused financial professional can help you evaluate scenarios, project outcomes, and make decisions that align with your long-term goals rather than short-term emotions.
Building the Right Support System
No one should go through divorce alone. Having the right team in place can make the process more manageable and less overwhelming. This may include a financial planner, attorney, and emotional support resources.
A strong support system helps you stay focused on practical solutions while navigating what can be an emotionally charged time.
Moving Forward With Confidence
Preparing for divorce does not mean you are committed to it. In many cases, it simply means you are educating yourself and protecting your future. Knowledge provides clarity, and clarity brings confidence.
At Leeward Divorce Financial Planning, we believe informed decisions lead to better outcomes. The new year is a natural time to reflect, plan, and take proactive steps toward stability. If divorce is something you are considering, now is the time to gather information, understand your options, and prepare your family for whatever comes next.
Change can be difficult, but with the right planning and guidance, it can also be the beginning of a more secure and intentional future.
Take Control of Your Future
At Leeward Divorce Financial Planning, we help parents navigate the financial complexities of divorce so they can focus on building a secure future for their families. If you’re preparing for the school year and want to feel more confident about your financial plan, we’re here to guide you.
Kimberly can provide step-by-step guidance on matters related to divorce. With a wide range of experience and expertise related to divorce issues, our team will simplify the process and provide much-needed clarity in areas such as long-term tax consequences, asset, and debt analysis, dividing pension plans, continued health care coverage, stock option elections, protecting support with life insurance, and much more.
This information is not intended to be a substitute for seeking legal advice from an attorney. For legal or tax advice please seek the services of a qualified attorney and/or qualified tax professional.











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